I have spoke about this "friend" before... this is the one who was 3 months behind on rent and wanted me to take a cash advance on my credit card and give her a loan... 3 months later she bought a brand new 2010 Dodge Ram 2500 las summer we were at her place and her then 14 year old was drunk and bragging about the fact that her mom lets her do it all the time. Mom agreed and said she would rather her drink at home where she knows she is safe. Last night hubby received a text message telling him that the daughter who is now 15 would like to smoke salvia with him.... Hubby had no idea what this was until I told him and looked it up.... but the problem is I find some sites that say its safe and had no side affects and others that compare it to LSD. I have pretty much cut ties to this woman she is totally irresponsible My question is... what do you do about this?... there are 2 younger children in the home... salvia is not yet illegal in canada.... mom has her drinking buddy with the 15 year old... this is just disgusting if you ask me... or am I being a fuddy duddy? ETA: hubby does not smoke anything!..