I got a tattoo when I hit 35-and lost 40lbs. Its a very pretty colorful butterfly below my belly button-about 4" x 4" -instead of the "eyes" on the wings-I had him make lady bugs with my girls names circling them-I always called them "ladybugs" they are 13 and 10-I love it-but...the lbs. are slowly creeping back on :-( and my butterfly is growing LOL...Dont regret it but I wont get another one...I'm sorry Deb-so many people do what your son did and think that their realationships will last forever. Maybe you will get lucky and this one will work out for the better... good luck