I have 5 tattoos and the thing about them is, if you are asking people what they think, you haven't found "the one" yet. You will know when you find "the one" and you will want it immediatly.
Also, talk to a tattoo artist (a good one). They should be able to talk to you and draw one especially for you. All of mine are custom and I wouldn't have it any other way. I am not one for flash work. I don't want to be walking down the road and see someone else with the same exact tattoo as I have. That to me, takes away the specialness of it.