i want to cry, not sure why

[Kelly G]

You will ALWAYS be the mother who was always there when needed.

He will ALWAYS be the father who was never there when needed.

 

[Lil_Chickadee]

My mom and dad got married, had 6 kids. Divorced when I was 6 and I was the youngest. He remarried another lady for about 10 years. His 2nd wife passed away and when I was about 22 my Mom and dad got back together for another 15 years untill he passed away. So ya never know.

 

[cwc362]

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Just my opinion, but I think you should always tell kids about stuff like that, unless the father is like a mass murderer or something. None of my three kids are my biological children - They have another sister who was taken from their mom. I never had a realtionship with their mother but that's another long story. All of these kids have different dads. But I knew all their dads and 2 of them have been around their dads some. My twelve year old daughter has never seen her dad . I've searched the internet but can't find anything about him.
But I'm Big Daddy . And these others are just sperm donors. But everytime the kids ask about them I tell them what I know. The 12 year old always says she looks like her daddy because I told her she did. I don't want them someday to think I was keeping something from them. Even if I KNOW they would be better off .

Every situation is different and you have to do what you think is best. If he isn't a monster or something , try to put aside if you just dislike him. Good luck- stuff like this will drive you crazy trying to figure out what the right thing to do for the kid is!!
I'm not the best writer in the world and hope you can make sense of my post. I wish you the best and hope everything works itself out

 

[BellLisamo]

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Just my opinion, but I think you should always tell kids about stuff like that, unless the father is like a mass murderer or something. None of my three kids are my biological children - They have another sister who was taken from their mom. I never had a realtionship with their mother but that's another long story. All of these kids have different dads. But I knew all their dads and 2 of them have been around their dads some. My twelve year old daughter has never seen her dad . I've searched the internet but can't find anything about him.
But I'm Big Daddy . And these others are just sperm donors. But everytime the kids ask about them I tell them what I know. The 12 year old always says she looks like her daddy because I told her she did. I don't want them someday to think I was keeping something from them. Even if I KNOW they would be better off .

Every situation is different and you have to do what you think is best. If he isn't a monster or something , try to put aside if you just dislike him. Good luck- stuff like this will drive you crazy trying to figure out what the right thing to do for the kid is!!
I'm not the best writer in the world and hope you can make sense of my post. I wish you the best and hope everything works itself out

well i dont plan on telling her until shes a teenager, or older, i dont think shed understand or be happy that her bio dad signed his rights away, and is no longer legally considered her dad.

But i guess ill make that decision when i come to that crossing in the road....

 

[BellLisamo]

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thats what i feel about these situations