I want to say I am sorry

[Vanderfelt]

I understand not all kids are horrible, and all of it isnt their fault, just had a few months bad luck with running into nothing but parents that could care less or overindulge their children. I am turning into the grumpy old lady that would turn her hose on wee ones or keep their toys if they come in my yard. ( I haven't by the way, just trying to be descriptive of my state of mind) I just don't think some parents have a clue. I really wish people had to take a test, written and verbal before being allowed to reproduce.

 

[Vanderfelt]

Oh, I never did see where it led to, I went to bed and woke up feeling really bad about my post and this was the first chance I could get back on and apologize for it. I wanted to delete it but couldn't find it again.

 

[Fay at Frizzled Feathers]

Ewww thats just totally gross , understand your rant but must of missed that post.We all need to vent at times !

 

[cw]

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see the problem is almost a 2 way problem, as you deserve respect, you deserve the respect of your property as well,
but the next generation learns 1 way and 1 way only, and its from the generations before them, there teachers, sport heros, presidents, etc are all the role models of the generation to come.

it seems there was a generation of a lot of parents who said they dont want there children to work as hard as they had too.(we've all heard that aint we)
what i dont understand is why that was said, cause it has lead to a generation who now thinks that everything should be handed to them, and in this day of age they need to relieze hard work is the only way to get anything

 

[Chicky Mama]

cw

absoluty, poor behavior should not be accepted, anywhere under any circumstance.

but in the other hand to judge an entire group of people (especially those who are completly defenseless)from the behavior of one in the entire group would be considered racesist, if it was based on the color of the particular race,
would be considered sexsism if it was against a particular sex, etc..

thats hard said , and probably confusing to read and understand sorry just trying to word it politacally correct

we have the right to free speech, but not the right to slander entire group

I'm not being racial or judgemental,it's bad parenting and disgusting.I've known or seen mom's of every race and status ingnore things like that,it doesn't help the kid to know right from wrong to ignore it is all.I only read what was witten by Vanderfelt today not yesterday. If my daughter put her buger germs in food for the public to eat and bit a stranger and I ignored it people would react to it. It's gross plain and simple.Sorry but that's me,I don't like buger germs in my food or someones spit on me. I don't know if they're sick or not.There's to many things out there right now that transmit easily.I would've been bothered to regardless of time of day and color or status of said family.That's all.

 

[Chicky Mama]

I wasn't saying to point them out to the store either .Just turn in the food that got picked open. I've told my kid since day 1 not to pop the wrap on any food like that. Would you accept that kind of thing from your kid,mainly the biting?

 

[cw]

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I'm not being racial or judgemental,it's bad parenting and disgusting.I've known or seen mom's of every race and status ingnore things like that,it doesn't help the kid to know right from wrong to ignore it is all.I only read what was witten by Vanderfelt today not yesterday. If my daughter put her buger germs in food for the public to eat and bit a stranger and I ignored it people would react to it. It's gross plain and simple.Sorry but that's me,I don't like buger germs in my food or someones spit on me. I don't know if they're sick or not.There's to many things out there right now that transmit easily.I would've been bothered to regardless of time of day and color or status of said family.That's all.

if you felt that that was directed to you indivuadually i sincely apoligize that was directed to those who later in the discussion got out of hand.

and yes it is plain gross, and should not be accepted, and not only gross but it was unsanitary, as the nostril is a key place the staph bacteria is present(just to name 1 deadly 1) the food item shouldve been removed and the parent charged full price.

 

[Vanderfelt]

I guess what I posted yesterday would have to be a made up word for generalizing and lumping all children together as bad... Like "childist" or a "kidamist" or something along those lines.

 

[cw]

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why not point them out to the store? why not make them responsible for there actions?
aint that considered vandlism?
and no i would not, and dont accept poor behavier from any of my 3 children
and i have no clue why but all 3 were biters and that was put to a stop extremly fast.

A couple weeks ago my little girl stole an energy drink (shes 4 and thought it was candy)(little bitty bottle one in the candy isle) well we didnt catch it till we was down the road. but caught it turned around and made her return the item and pay for it. The store manager said thank you and asked why i turned around for such a frivleless item, riskin are cold items goin bad.
It aint about the item stole, its about the principle of somethin being stole.
I love my children too much too let that be over looked

 

[cw]

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i guess now only you know that as it got removed pretty quick, but it got pretty rough towards the end. wether you was part of that or not who knows,


you have every reason to rant, by all means do it.
its sad that some people dont love there children enough to teach them right or wrong, or lack the no how to teach em.
but behind every horrible child is a horrible parent,

i agre 100% with your rant, 100% right to rant.
the parent is the 1 to blame for the childs behavior