If you knew someone who was doing something very dangerous and stupid

[luvmychicknkids]

Oh yes, she has really written them, I have seen and read all the messages. Some are VERY foul as well as asking for a place to live.

 

[Shared Acres]

I do agree with the last couple of posters though. Ultimately she isn't your responsibility and beyond calling and asking about mental services, don't stress yourself out over the deal.

 

[luvmychicknkids]

I know that everyone is right. She is just someone I have been trying to save from herself for the past 4 years. I guess it is long past time to stop. I think I will look for the number for social services, see what they can suggest and be done with it.

I need to stop thinking I am responsible for saving the world.

 

[The Chicken Lady]

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[sparkles2307]

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Um, a lot of them need some kind of Mental Health case management. Some just need some Stabilization Services. But the majority are 2nd or 3rd generation welfare and its all they know so they have a feeling of entitlement. They grew up seeing the adults in their lives not take care of themselves or take responsibility for anything. Heck, the more times you get knocked up the more asistance you get. I feel very little sympathy even for those who were raised that way. They have to SEE how much better other people live...it isnt that hard to work at the gas station for gosh sakes. And if you work nights then you cna flirt with the truckers...that sounds like it'd be right up your "person's" alley....

 

[luvmychicknkids]

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Um, a lot of them need some kind of Mental Health case management. Some just need some Stabilization Services. But the majority are 2nd or 3rd generation welfare and its all they know so they have a feeling of entitlement. They grew up seeing the adults in their lives not take care of themselves or take responsibility for anything. Heck, the more times you get knocked up the more asistance you get. I feel very little sympathy even for those who were raised that way. They have to SEE how much better other people live...it isnt that hard to work at the gas station for gosh sakes. And if you work nights then you cna flirt with the truckers...that sounds like it'd be right up your "person's" alley....

LOL yes, she would LOVE that, if it just didn't have to involve that whole "work" thing!!! And yeah, she grew up on welfare. Thankfully, she has no children (not for lack of trying... for lack of ability) so it is just her she drags through the dirt.

 

[sparkles2307]

like I said, run away.

 

[Ol'FashionHen]

Hmmmm....I can't imagine what her {application} for wanting a man off the net to take care of her may read. On the other hand there are many men out there like her..... wanting a lady friend to shack up with in his parents basement.

Then....

But the majority are 2nd or 3rd generation welfare and its all they know so they have a feeling of entitlement.

Supposadly some folks are getting a check because they have ADHD ( now no pun intended ) but heck if your mind is that fast I say hook up some stationary bikes and generate us some electricity for environment sakes

....that's contributing to society.​

 

[luvmychicknkids]

Ol'FashionHen :

Hmmmm....I can't imagine what her {application} for wanting a man off the net to take care of her may read. On the other hand there are many men out there like her..... wanting a lady friend to shack up with in his parents basement.

Then....

But the majority are 2nd or 3rd generation welfare and its all they know so they have a feeling of entitlement.

Supposadly some folks are getting a check because they have ADHD ( now no pun intended ) but heck if your mind is that fast I say hook up some stationary bikes and generate us some electricity for environment sakes

....that's contributing to society.​

You know....that really may not be as funny as it sounds.....pretty good suggestion IMO. I actually have an ADHD kid (his brain was messed up from being a 25 week preemie). I am managing to keep him off meds with fish oil and different self control techniques. Anyway, someone said to me once that "we" all claim to have an ADHD kid just to get that check. I almost fell over....WHAT check! I had no clue and ADHD kid could be called disabled!!! If anything, they are HYPER abled!!! Amazing what stupid people can get by with!!! Oh, just for the record, my kid is at the top of his class in ALMOST everything (he inherited my math ability) and a serious overachiever!!! LOL​

 

[Ol'FashionHen]

My nephew also has ADHD, his dad had it as well. His dad's lessoned as he got older and doc's says his probably will too. The great upside is his dad is super smart...held 4.0 all through high school and received a full paid scholarship too. He is now a occupational theropist who was the only one in his class to pass his state exam on the first try. Started out making $31.00 an hour.
So my nephew

, we don't care how hyper he is we love em' up anyway. He is a great boy and loves his little brother

edited cause I just can't spell today