I have a 5 month old little girl, Avery, and she has been Colic since 3 weeks old. She has NEVER slept through the night, and woke up every2 hours for the first 4 months.
When she'd wake up at night, you didnt want to do anything to fully wake her up, just roll over and feed her (breast fed). So, we resorted to letting her sleep with us, because of how often she was waking up. This way, I could easily get her back to sleep, and get some sleep myself. Now, she wakes up every 3-4 hours, and started to sleep in her crib. That lasted about one week, and than I fell down my back steps and couldn't walk well. I kept her in bed to make it easier for myself. Since then, when she wakes up, she kicks her legs like crazy and is sooo gassy. I believe she is teething now.
SO, she's back in bed with us.
I'm seriously going out of my mind. When she is awake, sometimes all you can do to soothe her is to hold her, talk to her, play with her...so nothing gets done around the house. Then when she does sleep, all I want to do is sit and relax, and try to get stuff done around the house.
What am I doing wrong?!? I'm so close to a break down, I know it. I'm so exhausted. My DH works 40+ hours a week and than two nights a week on top of that. He is stopping the two nights a week at the end of the summer he says. I'm expected to have the house tidy (he knows it won't be spick and span, but he expects it tidy) and make dinner every night. Not just fish and chips either, it has to be meat and potatos. He knows that if its fish and chips, its been a really bad day! We've been married for 2 years and I'm just going out of my mind.
The worst thing is, she can be really great some days and really bad others. She is typically good when he is home and that makes me look like a liar.
She is eating one teaspoon Rice Cereal at lunch and the same at night. I've tried formula for dinner, that doesn't make any difference. I've tried increasing the cereal, and that just constipates her. I'm considering stopping breat feeding at 6 months, in hopes that the entire day of formula will fill her up enough to sleep the night.
What do I do about her gassyness. She kicks and kicks her legs sometimes and does this gruntting cry like she's trying to push. I'm not eating anything funny and have one to two cups of coffee a day. I'm almost considering taking her to the doctor!
What am I doing wrong?
(sorry to sound so stupid, but i'm desperate now!)
When she'd wake up at night, you didnt want to do anything to fully wake her up, just roll over and feed her (breast fed). So, we resorted to letting her sleep with us, because of how often she was waking up. This way, I could easily get her back to sleep, and get some sleep myself. Now, she wakes up every 3-4 hours, and started to sleep in her crib. That lasted about one week, and than I fell down my back steps and couldn't walk well. I kept her in bed to make it easier for myself. Since then, when she wakes up, she kicks her legs like crazy and is sooo gassy. I believe she is teething now.
SO, she's back in bed with us.
I'm seriously going out of my mind. When she is awake, sometimes all you can do to soothe her is to hold her, talk to her, play with her...so nothing gets done around the house. Then when she does sleep, all I want to do is sit and relax, and try to get stuff done around the house.
What am I doing wrong?!? I'm so close to a break down, I know it. I'm so exhausted. My DH works 40+ hours a week and than two nights a week on top of that. He is stopping the two nights a week at the end of the summer he says. I'm expected to have the house tidy (he knows it won't be spick and span, but he expects it tidy) and make dinner every night. Not just fish and chips either, it has to be meat and potatos. He knows that if its fish and chips, its been a really bad day! We've been married for 2 years and I'm just going out of my mind.
The worst thing is, she can be really great some days and really bad others. She is typically good when he is home and that makes me look like a liar.
She is eating one teaspoon Rice Cereal at lunch and the same at night. I've tried formula for dinner, that doesn't make any difference. I've tried increasing the cereal, and that just constipates her. I'm considering stopping breat feeding at 6 months, in hopes that the entire day of formula will fill her up enough to sleep the night.
What do I do about her gassyness. She kicks and kicks her legs sometimes and does this gruntting cry like she's trying to push. I'm not eating anything funny and have one to two cups of coffee a day. I'm almost considering taking her to the doctor!
What am I doing wrong?
(sorry to sound so stupid, but i'm desperate now!)
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