PeacefulWalls~
I am sorry that you, jchny/Janet, kaphyper, and probably others on this thread have to watch such a terrible disease affect your loved ones. I know that some of our other members like hogster, Leahs Mom, and vickichicki have loved ones with other challenges. (Sorry if I have missed mentioning other members-- please chime in).
Both my husband’s and my parents have passed, and as the youngest in both of our families, we were the family members who lived in town and handled most of their care.
My Dad had a long, slow illness of congestive heart failure, which led to dementia. (For those who don’t know, Alzheimer’s is one type of dementia). One thing that seemed to help him was the Memory Book that I made him. I gathered childhood through adult photos as well as photos of relatives, friends, and places. I chose around 12 photos because I didn’t want it to be too long. I scanned the photos and put one on each page with a line of type like: My name is (insert name) and I am (age) years old. The next page said something like My wife is/was (insert name) and we were married 50 years. Next page-- We had six children (insert names and photos of how they look today). Next page: I live in (city/location) with a few photos. I have a (sibling) named-- My friends who come to visit are-- Anyway, it was very simple and I put the pages in a small notebook. If anyone can’t scan their photos, they could be attached to a page and covered with a plastic page protector that has holes for a binder.
My Dad always asked for me to drive him around his old neighborhood where he grew up. He would point out his family’s home, the home of his grandparents who had lived in a house behind them, his school and church. Sometimes he would ask me to drive him there each day as though he had not been there in years.
I just want to let you and others know what my Dad enjoyed in case making a Memory Book would help your loved ones.