Is BYC Experiencing Cabin Fever?

[CCUK]

I have noticed something and I'm feeling quite snubbed. Maybe I'm just too sensitive.
There is a person who will like every singe post in every thread on a certain forum, except mine. She will even like the posts that quote my posts, but not like my actual original post. Do you think that's intentional? I wonder what I did wrong?

I wouldn't think anything of it anywhere else, but it's very obvious.

I have that from a few people too. Sometimes I think I'm being paranoid but if you look back at the rest if the thread it's definately there. The other thing that sometimes happens is if you try and give advice on a thread and it is ignored then someone says exactly the same thing several posts later and it's like the best advice ever. Sometimes it puts me off trying to help. Am I being paranoid or am I seeing something that's not there?

 

[oldhenlikesdogs]

Thanks i couldn’t change even if i wanted to, though i got a mouthful a month ago via PM that made me shy away from being myself on most threads gotta roll with the punches and learn, i guess

Don't let others change you.

 

[Bamabexchicks]

Thanks i couldn’t change even if i wanted to, though i got a mouthful a month ago via PM that made me shy away from being myself on most threads gotta roll with the punches and learn, i guess

Oh, my time's coming! Not one to hold back a humorous or controversial comment. You're right: just roll with it, baby!

 

[CCUK]

It happens to me a tad more than sometimes my sense of humour doesn’t necessarily travel well

Your humour is always full of sense Porky!

 

[Pork Pie]

I have that from a few people too. Sometimes I think I'm being paranoid but if you look back at the rest if the thread it's definately there. The other thing that sometimes happens is if you try and give advice on a thread and it is ignored then someone says exactly the same thing several posts later and it's like the best advice ever. Sometimes it puts me off trying to help. Am I being paranoid or am I seeing something that's not there?

Nah, the same happened to me this morning

 

[Pork Pie]

Your humour is always full of sense Porky!

Full of something, no doubt - and you need to keep an eye out for those folks in the white coats with such dubious thoughts - j/s

 

[casportpony]

Wow, great thread. I've been following since it started and haven't quite figured out a way to comment.

Is this what's going on lately? Everyone seems on edge? Are we all just getting squirrelly waiting on spring? Please explain it all to a confused old lady. Why can't we all get along?

it does seem that way, and thanks to this thread I have tried to be a little more aware of my posts and how they might make people feel.

 

[A_Fowl_Guy]

I have that from a few people too. Sometimes I think I'm being paranoid but if you look back at the rest if the thread it's definately there. The other thing that sometimes happens is if you try and give advice on a thread and it is ignored then someone says exactly the same thing several posts later and it's like the best advice ever. Sometimes it puts me off trying to help. Am I being paranoid or am I seeing something that's not there?

I still give my advice and leave it at that. If they don’t want to take it then fine, they can do them. If they want to take it great. If someone else makes the same advice I feel better even if their post gets the likes because I know I helped cause that.

 

[CCUK]

Thanks i couldn’t change even if i wanted to, though i got a mouthful a month ago via PM that made me shy away from being myself on most threads gotta roll with the punches and learn, i guess

Was that when you went all serious with your replies? It was a bit strange not having a laugh with you. Glad your back to your old self now!

 

[A_Fowl_Guy]

Wow, great thread. I've been following since it started and haven't quite figured out a way to comment.



it does seem that way, and thanks to this thread I have tried to be a little more aware of my posts and how they might make people feel.

Great to have you!