I helped my parents financially since I have been married which is 14 years. My father is a very bright and intelligent man but now is retired and my mother was disabled with ms which is now in remission. I have 3 kids and after helping them so much I finally bought a bigger house and sold theres which was under water and moved them in with me my husband and three kids. Grant you they have been a big help raising my kids but it was supposed to be a short time situation and now its going on 6 years. They were suppoed to be able to recover financial living here after my fathers job loss, but in the mean time my youngest brother had financial trouble and they help him so now it leaves them in the same spot as where they started 6 years ago. My life is not my own and i dont know what to do. I cant just put them on the street and and my brothers are no help. They just financially cant. My husband and I would really like to raise out children on our own and the imput from them on a contanace basis is driving me insane and I just dont know how to even approach them. They had to declare bankruptcy since due to my brother so they have no credit. I bought them a car in my name they do pay for that, but other than that i pay for everthing else. They had 17,000 from the sale of the house but over time that has depleated , so only income is social security. Does anyone have any thoughts since am I looking at this the wrong way. They have told me that give them the 17,000 back and they would find a place, but really do I owe them that since some of that money was to finish the basement so they would have a mini apartment to live. Grant you I will be coming into money in the future from my husbands side and they feel that they should be paid for helping rasie the kids since I did not have to pay for so much daycare while I worked. Oh my God this never ends.. Any Advice???? From outside people. I love my parents but enough is enough!!!