I'd be ultra concerned about pollutants in sand that gets washed in from the sea. You may be on the side of FL not affected by the BP oil spill, but no doubt the sand concentrates whatever washes up. Not to mention, many cities along the coast still pump out their sewage into the ocean. Eww..
Yes, the bivalves that are connected to make commercial oyster shell for layers DO absorb toxins since they are filtration feeders, but mostly in their flesh. What they put down in their shell matrix is nearly entirely made of calcium. But sand strait from the beach? You also don't know how much of that sand is calcium carbonate, so if you are using it as a calcium supplement, it may not meet the needs of your birds.
Grit and calcium are two different things, also. Grit goes into the gizzard to help grind up food. Calcium is dissolved after being eaten (meaning it CANNOT grind up food in the gizzard). So they need to have both offered.