Thank you Rusty... good clarification
Others that have posted since then..... I really do not understand sometimes... Why just assume that an op doesen't know what they are doing, and automatically make an issue about them, when you have never seen them in real life? I can see someone turning that question around to be about the farrier then, but, the fact is, he isen't the one we are talking to here. So why not give a BYC member the benefit of the doubt?
Also, just because people dont use exactly the descriptive language you would use, or go into great detail immediately in the first post... why assume they are wrong? People here on the forum are coming from many different states, and in different areas there are different ways of talking about something. Not to mention the different people themselves, their up-bringing, and what they see at the moment they are writing as being of more importance. It doesen't mean they dont know what they are talking about. Since the only thing I can see about another person here is the words that show up on my screen, thats what I stick to, and try not to assume anything beyond it... The op said the farrier would only talk to her husband, and not her (the owner), and was being rude... I guessed that as probably a sexist mentality, wrong or not.... and the guy was constantly stopping what he was doing to talk with the hubby, well if I were the horse, darn straight I'd want my foot back too.
From what I read, it sounds to me like, Duke at least, is a new horse for the op. Training does take time. If she finds she needs help with that training, I'm sure she would start a new thread asking for it, or for reliable rescources to find it.