Yes, we aren't here to be hurtful to each other in any way.
No need for you to feel stupid. We ALL have different experiences, and you shared YOURS! I just hope to steer you towards some earlier layers.
Unless of course you have a breed you are in love with and they just lay late and you live in the farther north, darker part of the world than some of us. 
In which case I might suggest you add some light for your ladies.I know you said aart...
But hey! I'm part of the BYC family, and just as nosy as anyone else. 
Anyone notice they added back the undecided face
and the hatching chick 
to the emoti's?! 
