As you can see by the other posts, you are not alone (not that it's any consolation).
My DH's ex-wife let his kids get so out of control that they are almost impossible to discipline now. They came to live with us for the summer once, after 3 weeks I thought I was having a nervous breakdown. When they got back home, she filed child abuse charges against him. You know what was in the social worker's report? That we made them fix themselves a bowl of cereal when they refused to eat what I made for dinner, & that DH threw away a baseball that they were throwing around in the car while he was driving. Yep, those kids were just tortured.
Needless to say, they won't be stepping foot in my house again until they turn 30. And we wonder why the country is in the shape it's in!!!
My DH's ex-wife let his kids get so out of control that they are almost impossible to discipline now. They came to live with us for the summer once, after 3 weeks I thought I was having a nervous breakdown. When they got back home, she filed child abuse charges against him. You know what was in the social worker's report? That we made them fix themselves a bowl of cereal when they refused to eat what I made for dinner, & that DH threw away a baseball that they were throwing around in the car while he was driving. Yep, those kids were just tortured.
Needless to say, they won't be stepping foot in my house again until they turn 30. And we wonder why the country is in the shape it's in!!!