Glad to get that cleared up!
In the future, I would suggest you use more 'gentle' wording, as it is extremely difficult to convey tone and emotion through text. If you are saying something that could be potentially taken as offensive, the other person can't exactly see you give a friendly smile to soften the blow. There was a fight in the Dorking thread over a similar issue, in which one of their dedicated breeders seemed to be insulting and critical of everybody, --even though that wasn't his intention,-- because he was a straightforward and strong worded guy.
I prefer to err on the side of being overly-sweet when dealing with someone I don't know well, because I'm a serious person and am naturally endowed with a logical and thus, semi-abrasive, personality.
So thanks to everybody who helped to get the air cleared!
In the future, I would suggest you use more 'gentle' wording, as it is extremely difficult to convey tone and emotion through text. If you are saying something that could be potentially taken as offensive, the other person can't exactly see you give a friendly smile to soften the blow. There was a fight in the Dorking thread over a similar issue, in which one of their dedicated breeders seemed to be insulting and critical of everybody, --even though that wasn't his intention,-- because he was a straightforward and strong worded guy.
I prefer to err on the side of being overly-sweet when dealing with someone I don't know well, because I'm a serious person and am naturally endowed with a logical and thus, semi-abrasive, personality.
So thanks to everybody who helped to get the air cleared!
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