First...don't be so hard on yourself...............OK.... I KNOW, I KNOW!
I did everything wrong.
Just help me figure out what to do now.
I have a forced air incubator so I (dumb sign here) only put my temp probe in one place when setting it all up and deciding when to put in eggs etc.
Now, that the eggs are in the incubator, I find that there ARE differences in temperature in various areas of the incubator.
So...for you'll that have incubators with that problem... WHAT TEMP DO YOU DECIDE TO AIM FOR?
The temp on the middle eggs? The edge eggs? The top of the eggs? Underneath the eggs?
Do you rotate all of the eggs around so that they take turns in the cooler and warmer spots?
I know I can't hit 103...... but just how low can I go and still get a good hatch?
(Alaskan, who is starting to think running into a brick wall would be much less frustrating)

I do not have a fan..................but I do rotate my eggs about once a week.............
I aim for 100 on top of the eggs...I have a thermometer that sits on top of them.
I keep it at 100 because it just stays there without my having to mess with it.
I think you are doing great......................