I absolutely hear you. Unfortunately the pup is easier to fix than the boyfriend. An undisciplined puppy is an irritation but an undisciplined adult GSD is a danger. You have to be practical and completely let go of fair. Are you willing to take the time and make the sacrifices to properly raise the puppy yourself? If not, please rehome him as soon as possible. I had a similar issue with my ex and our kids. I realized early that the fun was his and the responsibility was mine. They were all worth it.
ETA: You might want to get him ( the puppy not the boyfriend) an outdoor kennel for the times when you can't be home.
ETA: You might want to get him ( the puppy not the boyfriend) an outdoor kennel for the times when you can't be home.
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