I am for sure the silver pied white (Shadow) is a girl and my pied male (Chance) is a boy. She has always been smaller than him but she whines like crazy when he is content to lay on the floor. That is how Cricket was...whining and needing to be held. Chance is more independent. My friend Jennifer has Chocobo. He will be very stunning as an adult, his silver pied markings are incredible and we think he is a male. I'm happy with Chance and Shadow now. S makes cuddle noises long before C does. Last night C was missing and I searched the house he was under a blanket in my spare bedroom. Almost like raising children!