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When you say "going in"...what is your current definition of the split there? Just 50/50 or being fair on actual costs but no time and labor included? I agree, that really isn't fair....
when we split stuff with friends and family...they keep in mind that "tipping is NOT a city in China!" I guess because so many friends are from the restaurant business, as was I...and everyone KNOWS I did that work for years....well...they tip me accordingly when we are splitting the bill for the work I put in. Some of our 'partners in crime' won't process - they ONLY want the meat, nothing to do with it...cool with me...they "tip" me better....those that do come for processing day tend to tip a little less...I'm fine with that too...as they put in more work...
So, I guess what I'm saying is...you could split it more 60/40 or even 70/30 if you wanted to (in your favor of course) and just tell them flat out it's a cost increase based on work put in or even figure out a charge somehow you would be happy with...some might get their feelings hurt...I don't know...we all just respect the power of the tip around here and it's always been customary that our friends/family bump me extra for the extra effort involved
I SWEAR I only ASK for what their portion of the actual costs are...they all just kinda bump it on their own, and just like when I was a server, sometimes people tip better than others...but they all know I'm not charging for time and effort too...I show everyone on paper what i spent and what they owe...and they just keep me covered ya know? So, if they aren't already offering up extra to you...I'd say be prepared for some to be hurt over an extra charge...people can be weird about that, especially when they are related to you, ya know?
But I do feel it would be fair of you to ask for a little extra, unless of course THEY want to get up early, and drive all the way to your place, and feed and such...but I don't see that happening