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This is a forum for chicken lovers, not necessarily chicken owners. A lot of us joined before we ever had chickens, and many stay long after they've had to give up their birds, for whatever reason.

Wishing you strength and peace as you go through these trials.

 

[chicken farmer 1997]

 

[ChickenPeep]

Not having chickens dosen't disqualify you for BYC!
I can list a number of people on here who don't have chickens!
Your always welcome here if you want anything! Where here for you!

 

[sourland]

You will never find a better support group than the BYC family. There is no reason to leave us. We care about you - - - -

 

[debilorrah]

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All people are welcome here, not just chicken owners. I will offer you an ear whenever you need it. Divorce is difficult at best and can be a nightmare. Never feel afraid to come here and vent.

This site if for people too, ya know.

 

[b.hromada]

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this, exactly.

 

[Henny peeny]

I t looks like I will be here till Christmas since he did see any reason to put up a tree.

I revolation happen yesterday, We had gone food shopping and we stopped over the grand mothers and he found that the poeople the kids were with wasn't doing as I asked and that things were not as they appeared to be and he finally heard for himself that his daughter that has the two kids has been basshinmg me verbally telling poeple I am a wful person and how a moster I am. That he desered her and never did nothing for her. So now he is to take custody of the kids now before I go further I need to tell you I have been there done that with him so I called my son he maybe mentally Chanlenged but he is wise and help me nuch with deciding things, so now the deal is that if my husband does go through with this then I would stay but if he doesn't then I leave for things will not ever get better, they will stay as they are right now. This means to do this to prove she is unfit and I read somewhere this custody can go into adoption, I know I didn't sign up for all this but I have thought about these kids and this was very hard to think to just walk away and if they would get to the doctors or anywhere else they need to go. My husband works and most place are not open when he is done work so I found it hard to just walk away.

So now he is to call lawyers and see an bout custody now if anyone has been through this or know of anyone can you tell me anything as to having people talk for you to say anything I called a lawyer one day long ago about this and they said to have them write out and notorize what they wrote and it will be a affidavit to be shown in court. I hate to have to bring the kids in on this in court but it depends on what the lawyer has to say I reckon. It still is set for after Christmas UNLESS he take custody or in the process if he backs out as he has so many times ( this is with other things he said he would do but then didn't do) I am out of here.

What say all of you do you think I shoud stay for the kids if he takes custody or should I stil leave?

Rhayden

 

[anderson8505]

ditto
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[stoopid]

Strength to you, honey.
This time of year is the most stressful time for me, and alot of rash decisions are made.
Just take a deep breath, try to relax (I know it is very hard) and wait and see.
You will ALWAYS be welcome here on BYC. There is a wonderful bunch of peeps here, doesn't matter if you have chickens!

 

[krcote]

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This is a little hard for me to follow (maybe I have not had enough coffee yet) but these kids belong to his daughter? And he is debating trying to get custody of them (his grandchildren)? You are thinking of sticking it out with him for the grandkids?