I feel like this almost should be a button pin
I'd wear it if it was
Follow along with the video below to see how to install our site as a web app on your home screen.
Note: This feature may not be available in some browsers.
I feel like this almost should be a button pin
At least the community is coming out more!No problem!
Imho gender and sexuality are a spectrum and are always changing and fluxing. I've never been super girly and still don't understand make-up or styling my hair, but I like dressing in dresses now and wearing pink and girly stuff. It took me a LONG time to accept my femininity just because of society saying girls are gross and just the misogyny in general? But I remember asking someone once like, "... You ever feel super girly one day but the next like you're just a person in a skin suit? Like not a girl, not a boy, but.... Ehhh?"
I'm from a VERY rural area, super conservative Oklahoma. Nobody really talks about this stuff out here. But the gay, lesbian and queer community are growing and more out than they have been.
SameI'd wear it if it was
At least the community is coming out more!
In my opinion some of this needs to be taught in schools to a degree, in general, just in being more inclusive to gay parents and trans kids.
That makes sense to me, I think
Somedays I want to wear dresses. And style my hair, but at the same time I was a "tomboy" growing up, I enjoyed playing with snails, climbing trees and Ive always hated wearing makeup. As a child, I remember calling myself a boy. That I remember. And I remember being confused after at realising I'm not.
Some days.... I just don't feel like a woman. Even to the point of not being comfortable with my body or clothes or long hair.
But I'm not sure I feel like a man... its so confusing, I think because of gender norms and all that stuff.
All I know if I just got stressed because I couldn't find my gender neutral top, lol
Then I just convince myself I'm thinking about it too much.
All of that definitely does help, a ton, and it makes senseNot sure if genderfluid is close enough, I noticed it about the end of 6th-beginning of 7th grade. I did think I was Trans until about freshman year. Then I forced myself to accept that I was female and a girl because my girlfriend was a lesbian and I didn't want her to decide I wasn't good enough.
About my first year in college, the feelings came back, and I wasn't with her anymore, so I let myself actually feel them. It wasn't the same as how I feel being Trans is though, since sometimes the 'shirt' fit and felt right, and sometimes it didn't.
So I've considered myself fluid since then. Occasionally it gets really bad and I feel like the 'shirt' is twisted and seven times too small and I just want to claw it off whole screaming. But sometimes it feels like a nice, worn t shirt you'd wear for painting since it's too old and loved to wear in public anymore.
I don't know if that will help or even make sense. I'm just not sure how else to explain it
Yep. It's just a damn shame that we're 'expected' to pick one or the other.its so confusing, I think because of gender norms and all that stuff.
I dont think it's a matter of choosing, more just figuring it outYep. It's just a damn shame that we're 'expected' to pick one or the other.
Gender norms are the reason behind all the confusions and conflicts.
So much in society is built around one-or-the-other choices.Yep. It's just a damn shame that we're 'expected' to pick one or the other.
Gender norms are the reason behind all the confusions and conflicts.
Honestly, black-and-white thinking is ridiculous in almost all aspects of life.So much in society is built around one-or-the-other choices.
We're finding out lots of things are a continuum.