First of all, don’t feel stupid! I understand how hard it can be to find something that fits. I think questioning things is an important part of life, and not just in the LGBTQ+ community. It’s been two years and I’m still trying to figure some things out.
On to your question, I identified as abro for a while. I’m not sure how well I fit with that now(currently leaning more to MLM), but it definitely helped take some of the “pressure” off. But when I first found it, there was definitely a “that’s like me! :0” moment, lol.
And lastly, it’s okay to change labels and it’s also okay if you decide you don’t want to use them! Things change, whether it be years, months, days, or even hours down the line, and it’s important to try and just go with the flow. Trust me, trying to hold on to the same old thing isn’t very fun.