Life is changing for us, and it is not for a positive reason

[debilorrah]

He is a very sweet man to me. Most of the time.

 

[debilorrah]

Holy hell in a hand basket. Ken just turned on live chat with his friend and the dude has no shirt on. BRAIN BLEACH!!!!!

 

[Funky Feathers]

Holy hell in a hand basket. Ken just turned on live chat with his friend and the dude has no shirt on. BRAIN BLEACH!!!!!

Ummm, is that good, or bad?

 

[EweSheep]

Would he prefer to go "commando"?

 

[debilorrah]

Oh man, that damaged me for the entire night. The guy is not a looker.

 

[shadow rabbit10]

Humor, and a positive outlook is what you both need to get through this. My thoughts are for you two. I hope you can both stay positive. Good luck.

 

[debilorrah]

Humor, and a positive outlook is what you both need to get through this. My thoughts are for you two. I hope you can both stay positive. Good luck.

Some days are much harder than others, that is for sure. But we love each other, unconditionally, and that always helps. I really appreciate everyone's support, more than you know.

 

[Wisher1000]

Oh Debi, I just found this thread (I don't explore much) and I am so sorry for all you are going through. I know that you are strong and will face these challenges with grace and resolve. I will pray for you and Ken and I know that God will give you strength to face tomorrow. I know that you will be sure to take care of that DH of yours, but make it a special effort to take care of Debi as well, it will be good for him to see you doing what he would like to be doing for you. We love you, girl, even if your luck has been craptastic.

 

[debilorrah]

Oh Debi, I just found this thread (I don't explore much) and I am so sorry for all you are going through. I know that you are strong and will face these challenges with grace and resolve. I will pray for you and Ken and I know that God will give you strength to face tomorrow. I know that you will be sure to take care of that DH of yours, but make it a special effort to take care of Debi as well, it will be good for him to see you doing what he would like to be doing for you. We love you, girl, even if your luck has been craptastic.

Honestly, I wouldn't trade my time with Ken for ANYTHING!!!!! He is the best thing that ever happened in my life, and I believe that everything that happens to us, me, is part of the Plan that God made before I was born. Our journey's are all so different, and very special. How we handle it is the big difference.

I AM going to be here moaning and crying and being in the bottom of a pit when he goes. In the meantime, I do my best to hang on to all positive things.

 

[shadow rabbit10]

Debi, when he is gone, don't be sad forever. You should embrace what he brought into your life, and remember all the good times you had together. You should honor him for staying strong. Even when he is gone, your relationship with him, will be stronger than ever. Keep him close to your heart, and you will feel as if he is right beside you.
However, until then, embrace what you have and make the best of it. Don't waste a second. Live your lives to the fullest, and stay strong.