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I have ADD and am not medicated as I've had it all my life and have learned to "function" (ha!). My daughter will be 12 next month and she has ADD combined type, sensory processing disorder, and Bipolar 1 with psychotic features. She also has several food allergies. We do not medicate her for the ADD (did do straterra for a while). She is doing well and life can be very interesting in my house!
Before we started our son on meds, I talked to our school psychologist about meds. He says the testing for strattera on AD/HD is virtually nonexistent. He told me that when people try it, one of 2 things happens--they either give up on meds altogether, or they switch to stimulant meds. (for which the scientific research is VERY well-documented.) It's done wonders for our boy.
Someone else mentioned that at 4:15 when DS comes home he is DONE. My boy is the same. His teacher does a nice job of keeping him active and hands-on, but it's still a lot for him to hold together, both academically and emotionally. Some of our rides home are interesting, to say the least. I feel bad for his sister who has to share the back seat with him! Thursday and Monday were so awful I very nearly stopped by the police station to have someone in uniform talk to him!
One of our big problems with finding friends and play dates for him, is that the parents really don't get why he doesn't behave like all the other kids. We only have one neighbor family where we live. They have a boy a year younger than ours who I could make a pretty good AD/HD case for as well. They generally did okay, and my husband and I would watch them closely when they played at our place. The neighbors, however, would just leave the boys in the yard unattended, and they got in some trouble...2-sided trouble, I might add! Their solution, rather than coming to talk to us and to set up some supervision rules together, was to get in my boy's face and tell him that since DS and their boy made bad choices together, that they could never play together again. That was in October, and we haven't said 2 words to each other since. It's so stupid, because both are great kids, but they just need close supervision. Now he's branded as "the weird neighbor kid" and he doesn't have a chance to disprove their judgement.
Thank you everyone for sharing your struggles and successes. It gives me some perspective.
--Nikki