chasehope ,
I wish you the best of luck in developing your Goldens! I had wanted some too, but unfortuneatly, don't have the time, money, or space to grow out 100 birds or so to only keep a few. Don't feel like you are being picked on. People that you feel are being "critical" are trying to help point out known flaws, that is part of the mentoring system. No one would get very far with any breeding program if all they heard was, "oh, what a pretty roo/hen!" They are all pretty, but there are also faults that need to be improved upon. Once you are shown those faults, at least you will have a direction to then guide your breeding practices by. As for helpful suggestions, well, all in the Marans world are all pretty much in the same boat. Time and experimentation will eventually bring the best of the breed/variety forward, and closer to the SOP. If I were you, I would try not to see the critiques as a personal attack, and take them for the value that they offer. Experiment, have fun, and hope you get to your goal!