*~Lost Loved One Support Thread~*

[Mother_Hen2011]

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May he rest in peace and I will be praying for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss hun

. My fiance lost his grandma right before thanksgiving. May she rest in peace.

 

[yankeedoodle300]

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Follow this link https://www.backyardchickens.com/forum/viewtopic.php?pid=8008529#p8008529

 

[Mother_Hen2011]

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Follow this link https://www.backyardchickens.com/forum/viewtopic.php?pid=8008529#p8008529

Yes I posted on your thread

 

[ChicknThief]

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Today is a good day to be on BYC no matter the pain I feel you guys have helped me more with your kind words and prayers and thoughts.

Im sorry for your loss as well hun. I have been pregnant twice I have a 3 year old daughter she was almost 2 when i got pregnant the second time. My 3 year old and my 2 wonderful step kids are my whole world! Like i said before it was the first child for me and my fiance together. We both have kids from a previous relationship. My 2 step kids live in Texas with their real mom and we get to go see them and they get to come see us

I miss the alot! My daughter thinks my fiance is her dad he has been there since I was 5months pregnant with her so she loves him and doesnt really know her real dad even though he pays child support. She doesnt call him daddy.

You are so lucky to have such a loving and understanding fiancee! :') That will be such a help to you. I did not have that benefit. My deadbeat boyfriend left me for his ex (with whom he had been cheating on me) the morning after I miscarried. It just about killed me. I was only 18.

Luckily I have some of the most incredible friends on the planet. If not for them.... well. I doubt I would be around anymore.

That said, I now have a loving fiancee and a beautifully healed heart. Feel free to PM me if you ever need to vent and just get it all out. I would be happy to give you my number as well. We all need a good phone cry sometimes

We are all so incredibly lucky to be a part of BYC. Who would have thought that a chicken forum could be such a powerful vehicle for healing?

 

[Mother_Hen2011]

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Today is a good day to be on BYC no matter the pain I feel you guys have helped me more with your kind words and prayers and thoughts.

Im sorry for your loss as well hun. I have been pregnant twice I have a 3 year old daughter she was almost 2 when i got pregnant the second time. My 3 year old and my 2 wonderful step kids are my whole world! Like i said before it was the first child for me and my fiance together. We both have kids from a previous relationship. My 2 step kids live in Texas with their real mom and we get to go see them and they get to come see us

I miss the alot! My daughter thinks my fiance is her dad he has been there since I was 5months pregnant with her so she loves him and doesnt really know her real dad even though he pays child support. She doesnt call him daddy.

You are so lucky to have such a loving and understanding fiancee! :') That will be such a help to you. I did not have that benefit. My deadbeat boyfriend left me for his ex (with whom he had been cheating on me) the morning after I miscarried. It just about killed me. I was only 18.

Luckily I have some of the most incredible friends on the planet. If not for them.... well. I doubt I would be around anymore.

That said, I now have a loving fiancee and a beautifully healed heart. Feel free to PM me if you ever need to vent and just get it all out. I would be happy to give you my number as well. We all need a good phone cry sometimes

We are all so incredibly lucky to be a part of BYC. Who would have thought that a chicken forum could be such a powerful vehicle for healing?

Im sorry he was such a jerk. Not all men are that way though

I have had my fair share of jack wagon boyfriends and one abusive husband and Im only 23 lol Now I am with the man of my dreams and would do anything for him and go anywhere with him!!!! (Which I have done lol already.) We have been together for almost 4 years and engaged for almost 3

 

[Southernbelle]

I've had 2 miscarriages and the first one, in paticular, was difficult for me. I'd desperately wanted that baby and was devastated when I lost the baby. I remember asking the same questions ("Why did
God give me a baby and then take it away?") and had the same feelings (jealousy over pregnant women and mothers with babies). I had the added insult of some unexplained infertility after the miscarriage. It took a full year to conceive my next child.

My greatest comfort came from other women who had lost pregnancies. My mother had lost a baby and she told me, "Now you'll have a baby to rock when you get to heaven." I really love that thought. I love the idea that I have 2 little babies in heaven waiting for me and I can spend eternity rocking them in a rocking chair.

 

[Mother_Hen2011]

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Amen! That is a wonderful thought! Though I am sorry for your losses

thank you for sharing your story and feel free to subscribe just incase you need some one to talk to or chat with!!!