More hugs.It was a hard move, but since my now husband was here in the US and I was in the UK, then having to go through covid and being separated for 3yrs because of travel bans but still keeping together and being strong; I was all “nope” that ain’t happening ever again. So I chose to do the move.
& thank you. I feel like an idiot that I keep crying. But since me & my husband can’t have kids; it’s weird how it feels like I’ve lost one? We put so much love into Maple & Aspen; they were our first chickens. They were spoilt from the start with fluffy blankets and cuddles. They hardly left our side as chicks and they both got amazing character traits because of it.
i think that’s also the hardest thing. Some people don’t realize chickens have unique personalities so it then becomes more personal and heartfelt when losing one. Same with any animal you put your whole heart into.
Yes, for some of us they are our babies.


I first joined BYC because I felt it was the only place I could turn when I lost my first ever hen to a fox. Nobody else would really understand why I, a grown woman, was weeping over a dead chicken. I am sorry that you have not met the same outpouring of support that I found when I joined and poured out my grief on this site.