Kimmie, I chose not to handle the cockerels, I want them to have a healthy respect... I want my boys to be Leary of the roos. Don't pester, startle them. I warn them that the roos can think they are a threat and try and protect. I only pick up the hens that are willing. If they make a fuss,I leave them. I don't wimp around my birds at all. I've booted a roo off a hen, I even held a roo down to stop them from picking on another roo, as in Fritz the Jerk being a jerk. Aside from The conflict between Rod and Florus, but Rod being fine with Fritz and Pat the Rat... I do think its because Florus is bigger than Rod. Rod wants to be sure Florus knows his place. Rod would prefer it under ground. Lol. I also eat any roos at the first sign of people aggression. No chance to out grow it... No, its the teenage/hormones excuse. Maybe that's why I have nice boys.