Quote:Originally Posted by RaZOnce upon a time I was on an upward track, then life happens and priorities change. I was passed over on a number of occasions because I either didn't fit the physical mold they had or I wasn't a good little follower...if I am asked a question I answer it truthfully, even if that isn't what you wanted to hear...as a result I was deemed "not a team player." Just the other day as I was putting on my makeup for work I was thinking that it wasn't that long ago that I would go to the makeup counter at the high end department store and drop $27 for a little bottle of something and not even give it a second thought. If I wanted a new outfit, I would zip over to the mall and grab something....then I had an epiphany about what is really important in this life...and appearances and promotions ain't it! I still enjoy making a good living but I don't agonize over "what the world thinks" like I used to. I buy at resale stores or wear stuff I have had for years, and get compliments regularly. Now, I would no more think of dropping $27 on makeup or even an outfit for that matter! Kids change your priorities....and age adds wisdom. I would much rather be debt-free than have a new car, etc. Now I find myself doing things to poke fun at those around me who are appearance-driven. I am surrounded by management who are designer-slaves....I do stuff that gives them heartburn on a regular basis...like wear big flowers in my hair, no stockings, let my roots grow out a good inch or so....my latest....dyed my hair a dark burgundy red which I actually really like and have gotten a lot of compliments on...the stepford wives are in shock however.....