Progress is wonderful.
It's a logical decision, I really have changed since the accident, the combo of constant pain and exhaustion makes me hard to live with, since it's degenerative, i'll just slowly keep falling apart as my legs atrophy. He stuck it out for 2 years, and if it was reversed I don't think i could've done it for him. He offered legal seperation instead, but with being disabled, divorce makes better sence both benifit wise (i'll qualify for a home nurse), and morally. We figure it's better for the children to live with one parent than with 2 miserable ones, that'll be the most complicated part, we homeschooled both of them since birth (our oldest was deaf, now has the implant, and the youngest is rather advanced), so we'll either need to hire a private tutor, or buy a duplex so we can still co-parent.