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OK. Here I go again with the NAME thing! I really HATE that the BYC list uses these stupid nicknames instead of real names. I'm thinking that you are Lisa...
Anyway, whomever you are, I just wanted to say how very, VERY sorry I am for your loss! I can't imagine the pain that you must have gone through.
My oldest daughter lost her first baby (my first grandchild) when she was only a few months along. I remember being surprised at the intensity of the sadness and sense of loss that we all felt. I guess, I had always assumed that if someone lost a baby, early in the pregnancy, it would just be as if they were never even pregnant. How wrong I was. We were all devastated. I still buy an angle ornament (Snowbabies) for that Grandbaby every year...
Nancy
Nancy, I am Lisa (we had a lovely chat on the telephone a few days ago).
It was extremely hard dealing with the loss of my baby. I still have issues with it. During that time I was so stressed hearing my son, Jacob, was diagnosed with Autism (he's the one in the pic with my chicken). My heart just broke. Additionally, it is EXTREMELY hard for me to get pregnant. Getting pregnant with my little baby was a miracle in and of itself. Losing it was and still is devistating.
I am sorry for your daughter's loss too.
The good news is that Jacob is making tremendous strides. He is coming out of his shell and making such progress. I have our animals and my son Eddie to thank for that. We, at no time, have given up on Jacob having a fullfilling and normal life. We are getting there and we will continue to fight this "thing" (autism) that took my son away from me many months ago. (he had regression after shots) Slowly, he is coming back to us. For that, we are extremely blessed and grateful.
Lisa