First responsibility is to provide food and shelter for child/family. Everything else comes after. But to some extent, it is all circular: food and shelter are first, but that requires income; income requires a job, which requires daycare. But daycare does not provide a home (shelter) or food. As to the specific housing? Well previous decisions are not always easy to alter. Just because he is in a higher cost of living home does not mean that that is his currrent choice, only that that is where he is almost certainly contractually obligated at this point in time.
Warring spouses can be difficult. Whose responsibility is anything?
Warring spouses can be difficult. Whose responsibility is anything?