My boyfriend just got in a car accident.............

[angelmarie]

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i know i'm just 1 of those people who kinda take on others problems. I just don't like to see people hurting especially people i care about Thank You though

 

[angelmarie]

Good News!!! it wasn't a cracked sternum, ity was a cracked collar bone. I mean its not great news but its better. I found out through his friend i guess hes so out of it he didn't relize he said strenum. whoh! thank god! i was really worried about that one

 

[paisleycj]

why is he having so many accidents? Is he having seizures while driving?

 

[RayP]

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he needs help before he gets killed or worse.

 

[angelmarie]

i think he might, or hes so tired from working and then having to drive an hour home, i dunno i'll just give him his space for a bit

 

[Lobzi]

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Sounds like a plan....really it is the only thing you can do for him right now.

 

[Barnyard]

As other's have said before, he has got to want to help himself before he will accept help from other's.
Not trying to sound ugly and please don't take it that way, but it sounds like he is an attention seeker. He does things because he knows that he will get a reaction out of you and his buddy's. Not saying that he wrecked on purpose. If you 2 have been together for 2 years you would think that he would want you there with him during this. I know I would want my partner with me. JMHO, please don't take what I said the wrong way. I hope all goes well with him and you....

 

[smom1976]

I wouldnt date him!
#1 4 car accidents in 2 years.. not a very good driver, and I am thinking about ins. very expensive and if it is his fault they can sue your pants off.

#2 if the police were called out to the scene. He would have to sign papers to not get put on a strecher and carted off to the hospital.

#3 How in the world can he take care of you if he cant even take care of himself?

Think about it, detach yourself emotionally and look at it from another perspective.

Sorry I am done with my 2 cents.

My husband was in a car accident on April 1st and he is still home recovering so I do understand.

 

[angelmarie]

i suppose i should look at it a bit more rationally

 

[tiffanyh]

If I had to talk to my BF friends in order to get an update, he'd be letting the door hit him in the A$$ on the way out. Maybe it just me, but the way your describing it, he is avoiding and being disrespectful to you. So, respect yourself, stand tall and back away for a while. He'll come running if he wants you...but you shouldnt have to hunt him down and get updates frmo his friends.


The more your respect yourself, the more others respect you!