My drakes foot is ALWAYS bleeding??!

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Thank you so much it's been a long journey but I love that boy so much and it's been totally worth all the work sweat blood and tears. And thank you.. it's been really hard for me. Especially still co parenting the birds has been a challenge. We got into a huge fight tonight and now he claims he hates me and is done forever.... I haven't stopped crying since
I'm so sorry dear. Remember everything we go through makes us stronger and you have learned so much from all of this. Remember this experience and think of it often when you think about becoming a mother . . imagine dealing with 18 years of co parenting with someone you can't get along with.

Aflack s feet look great. I am so impressed. :hugs
Great job girl. :thumbsup
 
You need to enact the three C's.
Courteous Composed Calm

Use those words in your dealings with him and he'll respect your cool. Plus manners are there to fall back on in awful situations. Courtesy. Like he's an acquaintance you haven't yet decided about yet. You wouldn't lose your cool and argue with an acquaintance would you?

I'm generally too truthful but really, there's so many times in life where you pretty much have to disguise your feelings. This is one of them I think.
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He's already messing around with another girl. And this girl actually broke up my last relationship and hates me and has always been hateful towards me. And now she and Ronnie are flirting and have been with one another a lot and posting together. Knowing I'm hurting. He's such a mean person.. I never expected this.
 
I don't know him personally, but I would bet that this new girl is just a distraction. He is probably hurting too. Men don't process their emotions the same way women do. They tend to lash out (that's why he's been mean & speaking to you the way he has been) and then rush into the arms of the first thing that bats her eyelashes at them. Plus he is young. He probably doesn't realize he's being so cruel.
I am obviously speaking in broad generalizations here, not all men are like this... keep looking until you find your Prince. He's out there!! ;)
 
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I love picture quotes... when I am having difficulties in life, I print them off and hang them in places I know I will see them like the mirror above the bath sink, by my morning coffee mug or I just fold them up and carry it in my purse. Sometimes they are happy ones, sometimes they are stress related and sometimes they are sad ones....once I find that I don't need them I tuck the away. I found these and thought of you, I hope they help (The never give up one is to never give up on you...keep fighting for what's good for you)
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I don't know him personally, but I would bet that this new girl is just a distraction. He is probably hurting too. Men don't process their emotions the same way women do. They tend to lash out (that's why he's been mean & speaking to you the way he has been) and then rush into the arms of the first thing thay bats her eyelashes at them. Plus he is young. He probably doesn't realize he's being so cruel.
I am obviously speaking in broad generalizations here, not all men are like this... keep looking until you find your Prince. He's out there!! ;)
I sure hope all rush is true, I hope that's the way it is with him
 
Time for a new profile picture--one that shows the young woman who has been successful in treating Aflac's feet. You may think you couldn't have done it without the guy, but you would have found a way.

We may not be able to control what pops into our heads, but we can learn how not to make a comfortable home there for thoughts that contribute to our unhappiness. If Ronnie and the girl pop in, have your internal butler show them out of your mind immediately and turn your attention to your own business. Allowing thoughts of them to hang around in your mind is torture. Don't do that to yourself!

Divide up the duck keeping chores and do yours at a different time from when he does his. Show that you are moving on with your life and I'll bet a lot of the showing off with the new girl will taper off. Even if it doesn't, it won't matter to you anymore because you will be too busy doing all of the things you didn't have time for when you were dating.

I still have confidence in you. I'm having what I hope will be minor surgery on my wrist today, so if I can't type for awhile, remember that I'm one of your biggest fans.
 

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