My drakes foot is ALWAYS bleeding??!

[danielley101215]

It's just all a lot right now. To go from just a week ago him and I being together all the time and hugging kissing hold hands and saying I love you and talking to this. Being broken up with and on top of that he's being very verbally and emotionally abusive to me and is hurting me and making it way worse.. he's treating me like I don't matter. Like my existence doesn't matter to him. Like the whole two years meant nothing to him. And if meant everything to me and for this to happen oh my god it's so freaking heartless and messed up. I always gave my whole heart and my all to him and this is what I got. And it hurts I feel unappreciated..

 

[Ruralhideaway]

Girl you need to imagine a friend telling you this, same circumstances.

What would you say to her? I think I'd say "he has zero respect for you. That's partly him being a jerk. But also partly that the entire relationship may have happened entirely on his terms. So start respecting yourself enough to wonder, was HE even good enough for you?" Because so far this seems like you are a victim and he's walking all over you.

You can be anything! But love yourself and don't be a victim to anyone. Are you mad yet? Maybe you should be a bit angry. The best revenge is walking away and living well.

 

[onaharley]

 

[chickens really]

It's just all a lot right now. To go from just a week ago him and I being together all the time and hugging kissing hold hands and saying I love you and talking to this. Being broken up with and on top of that he's being very verbally and emotionally abusive to me and is hurting me and making it way worse.. he's treating me like I don't matter. Like my existence doesn't matter to him. Like the whole two years meant nothing to him. And if meant everything to me and for this to happen oh my god it's so freaking heartless and messed up. I always gave my whole heart and my all to him and this is what I got. And it hurts I feel unappreciated..

He is not worth it..Acting hurt and needy only gives him Power..As I said...Chin up young Lady..Your Soulmate is right around the bend...

 

[danielley101215]

So despite all the pain and hurt I am going through. Ronnie and I have been caring for Aflacs feet still. He's doing SO good. We have been keeping up with daily soaks and bandages and ointment. And I think FINALLY today we can remove bandages off one foot permanently! That will leave one more to finish healing. Here's the foot we are most likely going to unbandage. It's been a long ride, I'll tell you that. But SO worth it.

 

[Ruralhideaway]

That looks so much healthier! Good job, never forget you are great at being a bird mom!

 

[danielley101215]

Thank you so much! We left that one unbandaged today FINALLY! So one foot left!

 

[WVduckchick]

Wow, Aflac's foot looks amazing!

All of the duck advice has been inspiring, but the personal caring has been truly heartwarming.

I can only add one thing for you to remember about relationships. There is a lid for every jar, and if you aren't the one for him, then he isn't the one for you!

Chin up dear!!

 

[danielley101215]

Wow, Aflac's foot looks amazing!

All of the duck advice has been inspiring, but the personal caring has been truly heartwarming.

I can only add one thing for you to remember about relationships. There is a lid for every jar, and if you aren't the one for him, then he isn't the one for you!

Chin up dear!!

Thank you so much it's been a long journey but I love that boy so much and it's been totally worth all the work sweat blood and tears. And thank you.. it's been really hard for me. Especially still co parenting the birds has been a challenge. We got into a huge fight tonight and now he claims he hates me and is done forever.... I haven't stopped crying since

 

[Ruralhideaway]

You need to enact the three C's.
Courteous Composed Calm

Use those words in your dealings with him and he'll respect your cool. Plus manners are there to fall back on in awful situations. Courtesy. Like he's an acquaintance you haven't yet decided about yet. You wouldn't lose your cool and argue with an acquaintance would you?

I'm generally too truthful but really, there's so many times in life where you pretty much have to disguise your feelings. This is one of them I think.