That is so awesome! I really hope she beats this thing! Give her a big hug for me! Anyway, when I was about five all I cared about was animals, so a lot of my dreams would have had to do with that, but I tried to think of some other things. Disney World is always fun for kids, and you could watch some Disney movies beforehand to get her excited for it. I don't know what, if any, the limitations are, but when I was about that age my family went to Cancun and I have great memories from that trip. It is so beautiful, and I specifically remember getting to hold an iguana in the street and thinking it was so cool. Otherwise I think a trip to the Rockies or the Grand Canyon would be pretty neat. Those are just amazing places, although maybe not for a five year old. Maybe even just sending her to one of those summer camps for children with similar medical issues would be nice. Also about the girly stuff, tea parties are really fun, and usually involve dressing up in pretty dresses. I went to a bday party like this when I was younger and it was a lot of fun! Just some ideas, although hopefully she can help you out more than any of us so that she really gets what she wants!