3 years ago I divorced my ex over a horse. When money got tight he wanted me to sell him. I wanted him to try harder to find a job. He had a PT job, which could have been Ft but he didn't want to work until 6 at night. I was working FT. I now have a best DH in the world!
Ha, I am sorry to laugh, but like some of the others said, iffin she could not handle that then she wernt worth a plug nickel anyhow. I was talking to my ex wife the other day and she is mad that we didnt have chickens when we were together. Go figure.
You're better off without her. Anyone who asks you to choose between your pets and him/her is not worth being with. My bf tried pushing me about having so many pets, especially chickens and hamsters, and found out really fast he was pushing the wrong buttons and was going to lose. He shut up about them.
Haven't read it all yet. But, she doesn't have to share your interests, but she does need to respect you and your responsibilities, and your overall values need to match. You can each have hobbies that the other has no interest in, but you have to acknowledge and accept it. The reality is that if EVERYTHING is shared, eventually there is nothing left to share. But if you each separate to spend time alone or with other friends or at work or on a hobby, when you come together you each bring so much more to each other.
My hubby is definitely not perfect
and he always picks on me and says "no more animals"
but when it comes down to it...I asked and got permission for 4 new chicks to replace 3 that were stolen (see, I net an extra baby!
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he doesn't like my rooster either, but he calls me all worried when some of the hens escpaed and got into the road so I know he still cares about them because they are living pets
It's not his hobby, it's just not his "thing" but he's more than considerate of it being mine.