I have issues with my mom's side of my family, and i think why the autopsy was nixed was because they don't want to admit that maybe someone else may be my father or they just wanted to mess with me. my brother's take after mom's side and to say they are scum, I would be insulting scum to the point I would lose sleep over it for at least a decade,,,,, at his funeral 3 of my mom's brothers got the funeral director to ban me from being a pallbearer and the one that headed up the veto told me that they where more related to him by marriage than I was related to him. They threatened to have me banned from the service because they should have a say since they were "more related" to him and I was being "mean and nasty" because I wanted a say in my biological father's funeral.