Rachel, I'm so sorry you're having to deal with inadequate care. That's just so very wrong, on so many levels. I can remember my frustration when my hubby was in the hospital for 6 weeks. He was too sick to see to it that things were done right... and he's too nice to ever put up a stink, and doesn't know his way around the medical profession, so I almost camped out at his bedside day and night. Talk about the B!+(h ! I'm sure they didn't like it when I questioned things that didn't seem right! Time after time, I'd tell them that they needed to be checking his potassium level because it was low. They'd assure me that it was fine. Sure enough, they'd come back and check it, followed soon by a little bag of potassium! So, girl, you go ahead and be the smiling B!+(h! We're all rooting for you!