nannie I do much the same with our current rooster. (skyroo) (a bit over a year old and he is all rooster) I am surprised to read this whole thread and feeling ever so blessed and nervous about our upcoming cockerels.
maybe being free-range provides a sense of security....not being trapped...I dont know.
we let them free range our property and coop them only at night or very yucky weather. we dont pick up rooster SkyRoo or try to mess with him, or pet him, or force our dominance upon him...
but he is more than friendly and very much a family pet. SkyRoo has NEVER EVER displayed any sort of aggression or dominance towards any member of our family. (including our active 5 yr old daughter) we can hold, pet, do what ever with the hens.
when we bring treats out he is usually the first to alert the girls of our presence by calling them and running as fast as he can towards us...BUT he always stays a distance back and the girls eat first. *I think this is positive and the right relationship with him* sure it would be nice to pet him and handfeed him...but I think it would blur some boundaries that are there.
He is the only chicken of ours that actually comes up on the porch and pecks at the door. *and leaves us rooster gifts on the steps* poo *smiles* but as soon as we come to the door he slowly hops down the steps...very respectful rooster.
we have been so blessed with the fella that we can safely lay down on our tummies in the grass and hang out with the flock and never any concern of his behavior. we even play ball and run around with the kids, just be our normal selves and he is perfectly fine with our presence and activities.
I would consider our rooster very watchful and protective of the hens...he is always on guard watching and calling out and prepared to protect at all costs....against planes, hawks, dogs, 4wheelers, anything of the sort. he is very gentle to the hens and an all around great rooster and a joy to have in our family.
I guess we just let him do his own thing...and treat him with respect and not treat him exactly the way we do the hens *we dont EVER handfeed him, pet him, try to pick him up, or do anything like that.* but there is balance and respect and he knows we are not a threat...we are not his equal...we are not exactly his buddy...but he is not exactly afraid of us...
I think with SkyRoo *not saying for every rooster...but with him* that if we were picking him up by force this might make him perceive us as more threat and a source of unpleasant experiences...A big old predator/or competitor that keeps picking him up against his will...but that he always defeats once he is turned loose (set back on the ground again)
just my logic that I think about
after picking him up and restraining him by force...subduing him
then you walk away to carry about your business for the rest of the day...
who won that battle?
who is walking away?
who is left with the hens?
I think maybe in his mind currently we are not much more than just a mobile food dispenser to the hens and an automatic door opener and closer.
I dont know...this is just our experience with this one rooster...
we are very new to chickens and I am sure that every rooster has its ways and personality....one way is not perfect for every rooster. I think our other roosters that we are handraising up indoors will be different because of the attention they get as a chick...so it probably be different than life with SkyRoo...and probably require us to learn all sorts of different interactions/boundaries and ways of building mutual respect. *sure I'll be posting my own "help what do i do" thread in due time*
sure be nice to have a "Rooster Whisper" like dog whisper Cesar Millan.