From personal experience I can say that they are very soft and cuddly when they are playing dead. When I was a kid we would leave ice-cream buckets with dog food out for our dogs and possums would get in the bucket, get caught by the dogs, and I would go out to find what they were barking at. Animal control was always my job, so I would pick the possums up, carry them over to the fence and drop them over so that they would have a head start as the dogs ran for the hole in the fence. Never once did they try to bite me. Now, if I saw my son cuddling a possum I would probably have a heart attack.