I certainly agree that hens can be absolutely precious and sweet - and certainly easier to cuddle. (Just look at Sweetie and Puppy!!!!) I think the thing for me is that each of the 8 boys I have were CHOSEN and explicitly valued, with a decision that they were worth keeping. 8 cockerels/roosters is a lot for an urban neighborhood - no restriction on roosters, no complaints from neighbors (yet), but it's not like I'm in the country and can keep as many as I want, and I live with my fingers crossed all the time. Each one has to be explicitly valued, and there has to be a good reason he's here. The hens are really sweet, for sure, but for correct ratios of males to females, in my current flock, NO pullets get culled unless grossly abnormal/deformed/diseased. (I can always exclude them from actual breeding.) Boys need to be special to be kept, vs. the boys resting in the freezer...
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I literally six roosters/cockerels that will follow me around and bed to be picked up, and then snuggle sweetly in my arms, close their eyes and sleep. And if I set down, at least one and as many as three of them will jump up onto my lap and settle in, some pushing themselves as hard as possible against my chest and resting their heads on my shoulder while I pet them. Seriously, how do I cull a bird like that? And several of these guys aren't birds I'm planning to breed for various reasons. I just can't part with them because of their amazing personalities, and because I'm pretty sure my husband and son would stop speaking to me. THEY love those guys too!
So....I have six roosters as pets, only one of which I have definite breeding plans for, and then at least eight other breeding roosters I'm rotating through the pens. It can get pretty noisy around here in the morning.