My oldst son it ADHD as a result of being a 25 week preemie. I let him know from day one it was not an excuse for disruptive behavior and HE has to control himself. He will bounce his legs, hold objects in his hands to fidget with, things like that. I was spending over $100 a month on natural remedies that the health food store recommended that did nothing. Now he takes fish oil (works wonders) and has a cup of coffee on the way to school (try it, it really works). He is a terrific, well behaved, brilliant child. Good luck. You will find what works for you.