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I think you know exactly what you need to do, and it's hard. 2 years ago I ended my marriage, we had been together for 7 years before that. The first few years of it were ok, what made me stick around the rest of the time was probably low self esteem. The hardest part is making that first step to being independent again. She's already told you she doesn't want you around and doesn't let you touch her. What are you waiting for? You're worth more than that. I had to pump myself up in order to leave. My biggest helper was the thought: what would I tell myself in 10 years if I was still with this guy? I had the opportunity to go before I was boggled down with kids or it was harder to leave. I didn't need to be treated like crap. Think about that yourself. You're young, you've got plenty of great years ahead of you. You deserve to be with someone who appreciates you for who you are and what you do. Don't look back 10 years from now and realize you should have done it.
Regarding your chickens... there are some places to rent that would allow you to keep chickens. I don't know if your coop is movable or not; but you may also need to get rid of a few or all, as hard as that may be.
Good luck!
thanks for the advice . my coop is movable . i just need to find a rent that will accept chickens . iv been looking not much around my area so far. but im looking.
I think you know exactly what you need to do, and it's hard. 2 years ago I ended my marriage, we had been together for 7 years before that. The first few years of it were ok, what made me stick around the rest of the time was probably low self esteem. The hardest part is making that first step to being independent again. She's already told you she doesn't want you around and doesn't let you touch her. What are you waiting for? You're worth more than that. I had to pump myself up in order to leave. My biggest helper was the thought: what would I tell myself in 10 years if I was still with this guy? I had the opportunity to go before I was boggled down with kids or it was harder to leave. I didn't need to be treated like crap. Think about that yourself. You're young, you've got plenty of great years ahead of you. You deserve to be with someone who appreciates you for who you are and what you do. Don't look back 10 years from now and realize you should have done it.
Regarding your chickens... there are some places to rent that would allow you to keep chickens. I don't know if your coop is movable or not; but you may also need to get rid of a few or all, as hard as that may be.
Good luck!
thanks for the advice . my coop is movable . i just need to find a rent that will accept chickens . iv been looking not much around my area so far. but im looking.
