I have a 22 year old success story. My son.
He wasn't diagnosed untill he was 7 or 8. The doctor said he had NEVER had a child so 100 percent ADHD.(Inattentive AND hyperactive) The doctor said this was almost like having a disability. There is medication to help, but the biggest thing is behaviour modification- because they have to live with this for the rest of their lives.
Now, my son was so bad, he'd get distracted on his way to the bathroom, and end up having an accident. Or be walking from the table to the sink with his dinner plate, and end up in another room. I can't tell you how many times we had to use the Heimlich Maneuver on him because he literally inhaled his food. He'd cry every night during homework, because it gave him a headache to force hmself to concentrate.( Very common , by the way). He'd cry because he knew he was different from the other kids, and because he couldn't control his actions.
He was (is) very intelligent. That added to problems in school, with being unable to concentrate, but also bored. HE was an interesting, complex child. At age 4, he had an imaginary friend ( Mr Geek).. and his imaginary friend had an imaginary friend. (LOL doesnt it make your head hurt)
It took over a year, but we were able to avoid medication. Basically, I watched his actions. If he was heading toward the bathroom, for example, I'd ask him what he was doing. Then, a minute later, as he bypassed the bathroom, I'd stop him, and ask him again. And he'd say oops, I was going to the bathroom. We did this for EVERYTHING. Luckily, he had gotten a teacher at school who suported my efforts, and helped keep him on track in school.
Theres alot more to it. It was tougher than I can even put here. You can PM me if you'd like. But my son went thru teenage years, and never got arrested, or into drugs, or risk taking activities ( Which is also typical for ADD kids). He still gets distracted, and he probably always will. But he's able to get himself back on track. He's still got a little growing up to do, and he still talks alot. HE did pretty much grow out of the hyperactivity.
As for diet, yeah, we tried it all. I didnt notice a difference. EXCEPT- yogurt- the kind with active cultures. Doctor recommended it for the constant ear infections that ADHD kids seem to get. Eating yogurt every day eliminated the ear infections.
Oh, and of course, anything that he might choke on- especially pizza, peanutbutter, nuts, grapes, anything hard to chew. We were still cutting his food in tiny pieces till he was 10.
Routine was very important. As was warning him well ahead of time( if possible) of any change in plans or new situations. Also, lists. BUT.. I used post-it notes. With one "chore" on each note. Because looking at too many at one time , he'd get distracted. So the chore list, he could do the first one, then tear it off, etc. ( and then I could stick them back together for the next day)
He wasn't diagnosed untill he was 7 or 8. The doctor said he had NEVER had a child so 100 percent ADHD.(Inattentive AND hyperactive) The doctor said this was almost like having a disability. There is medication to help, but the biggest thing is behaviour modification- because they have to live with this for the rest of their lives.
Now, my son was so bad, he'd get distracted on his way to the bathroom, and end up having an accident. Or be walking from the table to the sink with his dinner plate, and end up in another room. I can't tell you how many times we had to use the Heimlich Maneuver on him because he literally inhaled his food. He'd cry every night during homework, because it gave him a headache to force hmself to concentrate.( Very common , by the way). He'd cry because he knew he was different from the other kids, and because he couldn't control his actions.
He was (is) very intelligent. That added to problems in school, with being unable to concentrate, but also bored. HE was an interesting, complex child. At age 4, he had an imaginary friend ( Mr Geek).. and his imaginary friend had an imaginary friend. (LOL doesnt it make your head hurt)
It took over a year, but we were able to avoid medication. Basically, I watched his actions. If he was heading toward the bathroom, for example, I'd ask him what he was doing. Then, a minute later, as he bypassed the bathroom, I'd stop him, and ask him again. And he'd say oops, I was going to the bathroom. We did this for EVERYTHING. Luckily, he had gotten a teacher at school who suported my efforts, and helped keep him on track in school.
Theres alot more to it. It was tougher than I can even put here. You can PM me if you'd like. But my son went thru teenage years, and never got arrested, or into drugs, or risk taking activities ( Which is also typical for ADD kids). He still gets distracted, and he probably always will. But he's able to get himself back on track. He's still got a little growing up to do, and he still talks alot. HE did pretty much grow out of the hyperactivity.
As for diet, yeah, we tried it all. I didnt notice a difference. EXCEPT- yogurt- the kind with active cultures. Doctor recommended it for the constant ear infections that ADHD kids seem to get. Eating yogurt every day eliminated the ear infections.
Oh, and of course, anything that he might choke on- especially pizza, peanutbutter, nuts, grapes, anything hard to chew. We were still cutting his food in tiny pieces till he was 10.
Routine was very important. As was warning him well ahead of time( if possible) of any change in plans or new situations. Also, lists. BUT.. I used post-it notes. With one "chore" on each note. Because looking at too many at one time , he'd get distracted. So the chore list, he could do the first one, then tear it off, etc. ( and then I could stick them back together for the next day)
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