Ok....this is a bit of a strange long story so I will try to sum up.... My best friend of almost 20 years has been driving me nuts lately. She used to date my brother when we were teenagers and then moved on to get married and have 2 kids. Withing the last 2 years she has been having feelings for my brother again and told her husband about said feelings.....the husband gives her permission to act on those feelings and she begins this....weird...thing with my brother, whilst still married and her husband knows about it. I didn't approve but kept that to myself as it's really not my business if she wants to wreck her family. A little background about my brother....he hates kids, does not want them, does not want to be with anyone who has them...he has always been this way. Ok, so my best friend decides to leave her husband thinking that my brother will be with her and make this magical happy family with her and her kids. All of this would be fine if I was left out if it.....BUT.. Every time my brother ignores her...which he does ALOT..I get a call.. "Have you heard from your brother? "Your brother is ignoring me again" "Why does your brother do this to me?" "Has your brother said anything to you about me?" This is getting REALLY old and I feel like i'm stuck in this nightmare "teen drama". It has gotten to the point that I cringe when she calls me!! Tonight was the kicker, it really ticked me off!! My brother is going on this trip tomorrow and came by to visit before he goes, he's going to be gone for at least 2 weeks if not longer....of course, she calls and I don't answer.....SHE SHOWS UP HERE!! My brother leaves and I am furious with her!! As soon as she figures out he has left, she leaves too!! How do I deal with this situation and not lose my best friend??? In some way, I don't feel like she is even my friend anymore, that she only talks to me to find out about my brother. My brother and I are very close...but lately, I have wanted cut ties with both him and my best friend, just so I wont have to deal with any of it! WHAT DO I DO HERE???