I had to respond just because I am a dog lover, I do not claim to be an expert on any breed but do know what I love and thought I would share my experiences. We currently have a beagle (barks to much for you) but love him he is 16 and love him but will say I will not have another beagle because of the barking/shedding. We also have a lab and she is a real sweetie, my husband loves labs as I do too because of there great personality but the shedding is major. I do not have a favorite breed as most of the dogs I have ever owned were either rescued or from an animal shelter. But I will say I absolutely love GoldenDoodles. They are real beauties, no shedding, not a lot of barking and just friendly great family pets. I have never had one, but two of my close friends have them and they are just wonderful dogs. Even my friend that is not a dog lover (but her husband and kids are) loves this dog. JUst thought I would share my opinion, it seems a GoldenDoodle or LaborDoodle would fit all your likes.