To help/assist or not...that is the question! Well...I helped mine...blood gushed..I freaked...it lived and is fine. HOWEVER...I think I'm with Stevenson on this....if they live it is great and if not I will assume it wasn't meant to be. Too traumatic for me. I think mine would have made it without my help and I don't plan to assist again. If it happens alot...then we have to ask ourselves if all the times we are opening and assisting(incubator) are increasing the risk of more problems with the loss of humidity and temps. Just my thoughts.