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I think the OP knows they were in the wrong too.  It's just a bit of a rub to be expected to right your wrongs while the other side uses you as a doormat.  There should be better communications.  The neighbor thought the chickens were an intrusion and a nuisance and had no qualms about telling the OP.  The OP now needs to open the communication the other way and air their grievances.  Personally, I would say, "I know my chickens have been an issue in your yard.  I am solving the problem with a fence.  It's nothing personal, but I have to contain the birds.  I also think that the fires in my yard present a liability.  I'm sorry but you will have to establish your own burn pile.  Since the chickens free range, the herb garden may have to be moved too.  I will help you move the plants.  I hope you're not offended and understand that I need to keep my chickens safe, and I want to be friends.  Let's go have lunch!"
If the OP has a talk with him, he will either get it or he won't.  If he's a decent person he will understand and move on.  If he gets mad and stays mad, he wasn't really a good neighbor anyway and it would have escalated to much worse without the fence and new rules.
+10!