I am with you! I think you are being an extremely responsible pet owner. I am experiencing the same sort of problem. I ended up with a rooster even though I very clearly ordered hens from the hatchery. He is beautiful (my profile picture), but he is really doing a number on the hens. I ordered some saddles for them out of desperation and am hoping like crazy that will be the solution. Many people have offered to kill him, but no one has offered to give him a home. So, I have been exploring the idea of neutering him. I don't know if it is a possibility or if it will even fix the problem, but I certainly want to make sure I try everything possible to keep him while also protecting the rest of the flock. Worst case scenario, I will segregate him. Hey, I eat chicken and beef no problem, but I absolutely DO NOT want to watch my food being killed or eat my pet. Call me a hypocrite, but it ain't happenin'.